anal sex between a husband and wife, within the confines of marriage, in the spirit of mutual consent, cannot be definitively categorized as a sin. Please note while anal sex between a husband and his wife might not be sinful, that does not mean we endorse it. Since all sex was supposed to be for the purposes of procreation, certain positions were banned (no sex standing up, the woman shouldnt be on top, no doggy style, oral, anal, or masturbation). And then there were restrictions on what days of the week people could have sex (not on fast days, or feast days for a saint, or on sundays, for example). In her new book, christians under covers evangelicals and sexual pleasure on the internet, university of nebraska-lincoln sociologist kelsy burke offers small peek under the covers of the sex lives of evangelical christians and her findings reveal a lot of kinky behavior, including anal play. question of the day is anal sex ok in marriage? Barry and lori answer this question for you. question what is a christian couple allowed to do in sex? Answer the bible says that marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for god will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral (hebrews 134). Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. I have pondered the question of analoral sex withing a christian marriage and with the anonymity of the internet it is easy to find answers. Not all answers are good ones as i have found a site that not only says it is ok which is what i wanted to hear but that christian porn is ok and that a threesome (as long as the man only had sex with his wife) was ok. God designed sex in a christian marriage to be good but the uncomfortable truth is that sex is not always what we expect. Sex has been around since creation and it was intended for pleasure as well as bonding and procreation. For centuries, the christian church has had what amounts to a monopoly on western conversations about sex and marriage. Our growing catalog of 283 of the best, clean, christian-friendly, illustrated sex positions, sex routines, and sex tips can help add intimacy and adventure to your love life. The best part about this sex position website for couples is they are all illustrated and described in a tasteful, christian-friendly, marriage-focused way.